Your role in a love triangle is on the rise and continues to soar. You’ve made a decision to pursue someone other than your husband and believe me it’s one of the riskiest, most exciting roles to explore and experience. I know because I have been in your shoes and now divorced which was not my intention at the time.
Your affair might be a diversion; a denial of hidden hurts and issues in your marriage or a way out that you believe you want at the time.
Regardless of why you became involved is not paramount at this time. What is essential is to be equipped with important emotional and financial support during your affair. Be aware and prepared when the fallout happens and it will happen at some point.
The general quality of your life will be threatened and if you have children it will truly impact them. Many of you will experience the real pain, hurt and intense passion created by the very nature of your role. Weigh your options carefully deciding what’s best for you and the children.
One relationship at a time is the smartest? More than one when already married is complicated and doomed. What’s enough my dear?
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