Possibly, your situation might become more difficult being Gay. If already in a Gay Relationship you tend to face the same hurt and pain and consequences as the person who has been unfaithful in a straight relationship. Your odds of having another affair repeat could be higher just by the mere fact that both you and your new lover are male. Hearts only know they hurt as they suffer the devastation created by cheating. They don’t know or care about sexual preferences involved.
When coming to terms with being gay yet still married to a female being unfaithful with another male will be overwhelming to everyone involved in this love triangle. Your situation for you, your wife and family gets more hurtful and complicated as your fallout unravels. Also you’ve made the difficult decision to finally leave your marriage even though your lover might decide to run. One of many consequences you’ll need to face. Depending on your personal history, your part of the country and the community where you live must be considered.
Being gay might fall somewhere between a source of pride yet still could remain a secret due to it’s sensitivity. As a country we have moved much further ahead therefore, it’s less hurtful for many gays as society is more accepting. There are many resources available today as you struggle with so many issues. Your stressful life can become unmanageable depending on your spouse’s and partners reactions. Watch for the signals as they erupt.